{"id":750,"date":"2026-08-28T10:00:44","date_gmt":"2026-08-28T10:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/harmonycoachingltd.com\/?p=750"},"modified":"2026-08-17T20:07:10","modified_gmt":"2026-08-17T20:07:10","slug":"when-it-feels-like-everything-is-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harmonycoachingltd.com\/fr\/when-it-feels-like-everything-is-wrong\/","title":{"rendered":"When It Feels Like Everything Is Wrong"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ theme_builder_area=”post_content” _builder_version=”4.27.7″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.27.7″ _module_preset=”default” theme_builder_area=”post_content” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″][et_pb_column _builder_version=”4.27.7″ _module_preset=”default” type=”4_4″ theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.7″ _module_preset=”default” theme_builder_area=”post_content” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″]

Have you ever had one of those days where someone asks what\u2019s wrong and you genuinely don\u2019t know how to answer?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Because it\u2019s not one thing.<\/span><\/p>\n

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It\u2019s work. You\u2019re tired. The house is a mess. You\u2019ve got things you should have done weeks ago. Someone needs something from you. You\u2019ve not seen your friends enough. You\u2019re annoyed at yourself for being annoyed.<\/span><\/p>\n

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And somewhere in amongst all of that you start thinking\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

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I\u2019m just not happy with my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

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That\u2019s a pretty big conclusion to come to.<\/span><\/p>\n

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And sometimes it\u2019s true. There are times when life really does need to change.<\/span><\/p>\n

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But sometimes your whole life isn\u2019t the problem at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

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One part of it is taking up so much space that it\u2019s started to colour everything else.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Think about work, for example.<\/span><\/p>\n

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If you\u2019re unhappy at work, you don\u2019t magically stop being unhappy with it when you close your laptop or walk out the door.<\/span><\/p>\n

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You think about it on Sunday night.<\/span><\/p>\n

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You replay that conversation in the car.<\/span><\/p>\n

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You\u2019re already irritated before Monday morning arrives.<\/span><\/p>\n

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You get home tired, so you can\u2019t be bothered doing anything. Then you feel guilty because you\u2019ve done nothing. Your patience gets shorter. You stop making plans because you\u2019re knackered.<\/span><\/p>\n

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A work problem has now wandered into your evenings, your relationships, your weekends and the way you feel about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

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So eventually, \u201cI hate my job\u201d can start feeling a lot like \u201cI hate my life.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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And it doesn\u2019t have to be work.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Maybe it\u2019s a relationship that hasn\u2019t felt right for a long time.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Maybe money is constantly sitting at the back of your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Maybe you\u2019ve lost confidence in yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Maybe you\u2019ve spent years looking after everyone else and somewhere along the way you disappeared from your own priority list.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Whatever it is, when something takes enough out of you, everything else starts feeling harder too.<\/span><\/p>\n

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That\u2019s when we tend to do something really unhelpful.<\/span><\/p>\n

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We decide we need to fix everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Get fitter. Sort the house. Change jobs. Save money. Be more organised. See friends more. Sort the relationship. Get our confidence back.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Excellent.<\/span><\/p>\n

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We were overwhelmed before and now we\u2019ve given ourselves nine new projects. <\/span>\ud83d\ude02<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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This is why I think there\u2019s a much better question than:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cWhat\u2019s wrong with my life?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ask yourself:<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cWhat\u2019s taking the most out of me right now?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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That question is different.<\/span><\/p>\n

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It doesn\u2019t ask you to judge your whole life.<\/span><\/p>\n

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It asks you to get curious about where the pressure is actually coming from.<\/span><\/p>\n

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You might realise your relationship is actually okay, you\u2019re just bringing home the stress from work.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Or that work isn\u2019t the biggest issue at all. You\u2019ve lost confidence and it\u2019s affecting how you feel everywhere.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Or perhaps nothing is dramatically wrong, but you\u2019ve been doing so much for everyone else that there\u2019s almost nothing left in your week that feels like yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

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You don\u2019t need to have the answer immediately.<\/span><\/p>\n

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But try separating things out.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Work. Relationships. Family. Money. Health. Confidence. Friendships. Fun. Your sense of direction.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t lump them together under \u201cmy life.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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Look at them individually.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Some might actually be pretty good.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Some might need a bit of attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

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And there may be one that makes you think, <\/span>Yep. That\u2019s the one.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Because \u201ceverything is wrong\u201d leaves you with absolutely no idea where to start.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cThis is the part that\u2019s really getting to me\u201d gives you somewhere to begin.<\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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